Here is a list of activities for October. Note a change to WEDNESDAY for the evening of recollection in Bergen County.  And a slight modification to the confession schedule at St. Thomas More in Convent Station on Fridays. 

Evenings of Morning of Recollection for Men
At Southmont:
Thursday, October 14, Time: 7:30 pm to 9:15 pm.   This recollection will also be transmitted via Zoom at this link.  There will be a buffet supper at 6:30 p.m. Suggested dinner donation $15. If you would like to join us for the buffet dinner, a RSVP would be appreciated to This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. .
Saturday, October 16 from 7:30 am and including Mass, finishing at approximately 9:45 am.   Coffee, donuts, and more available at 7:10 am. 
In Bergen County:   
WEDNESDAY, October 13, 7:30 pm to 9:15 pm.  At Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, 1 Passaic St, Ridgewood, NJ 07450. 
The recollections includes a meditation, a preached time of prayer, led by a priest of Opus Dei, an examination of conscience, a talk on practical aspect of living the faith in ordinary life, and exposition of the Blessed Sacrament. Confessions will be available throughout the recollection beginning at  7:00 pm.

The Grade
October 16
At Murray Hill Place in NY City. This monthly program for 8th grade and high school boys , from 2 - 4 pm, is sponsored by Southmont. See The Grade for details.   

Father – Son Club: Sherpa (2-4pm)
October 17
Sherpa Club for fathers and sons in grades 5-7.   

Weekly Online Meditation, Saturdays, 7:30 am
Dates: October 9th, 16th (as part of the morning of recollection), 30th.   (Note: none on Oct. 23).
Online – via Zoom: .   
You can dial in at (646)558-8656,  meeting ID: 210 168 415, Passcode: 772742.
One tap mobile +16465588656,,210168415#,,,,*772742# 
Fr. Bob Connor preaches a half-hour meditation. 

Confession Times
Fr. Bob Connor, or in his absence another priest for part of the time, will be available on Fridays at 10:30 am-1:30pm in the church of St. Thomas More, at 4 Convent Rd, Morristown, NJ 07960
He is also available on Saturdays 11:00 am to 1:00pm and from 2:30-4:00 pm in the confessional at Our Lady, Mother of the Church, 209 Woodcliff Avenue, Woodcliff Lake, NJ.
You can sign up for a ten minute slot at .    
NOTE: On Friday – Saturday, October 22-23, Fr. Bob will be away and confessions are expected to be heard in the morning slot.  The Calendly page will be updated as times are confirmed. 

Spiritual Direction Appointments
Spiritual direction for men is available at Southmont, 170 Montrose Ave,  on Thursdays, 8 am to 6 pm by appointment.  Booking is possible using the same link as for confessions shown above.   

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